Just a little reminder
about what the theory is: There is yourself, and everyone else that’s not you
is an “other.” In understanding these “others” there are two ways to approach
them. One way is through totality where you look at them as this kind of pie
chart and if you can fill in all the pieces then you will know exactly who they
are; you can label them. The other way is through the infinity approach where
no matter how much you learn there is always more to find out; you will never
be able to label them as something specific. Another way of describing this is
that totality is more harsh and grasping while infinity is more gentle and caressing.
When I first learned
about this it made me analyze what kind of a person I am, do I just try to
figure things out and label them or do I accept things as they are and slowly
try to unfold some of the mysteries? I feel like when you first meet someone it’s
only natural to want to “understand” them and instantly label them into a
category. Since learning this theory though, I’ve been trying harder to just
realize that labels don’t explain what someone really is. People are too
complex to fit inside narrow, undefined assumptions. So why do we keep putting
labels on people?
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